“Is he into me?” The top 5 signs to look for
So, is he in it for keeps? These are the five traits that show you don't have to stay awake at night wondering 'is he into me?!'
1. His plans include you
In the early days of a relationship, most people try and strike a balance. As well as date nights, some evenings are for friends, some for family or for spending alone time. It’s all about compartmentalising. But, there’s an indefinable moment when the boundaries of a life start to blur. If your man is inviting you to hang out with his friends and meet his family, or if he checks what you’re up to before making weekend plans, then he is definitely keen. Sam Owen says that, if a man is upfront about making plans that include you, then ‘’this is a sign [he’s] more into your partnership than single life and often means [he’s] really into you.
2. You’ve become each others’ plus ones
Owen also points out another great indicator that he is ready to commit: he includes you in special events (and he comes to yours). She says ‘’If you’re included in occasions like family weddings or funerals [it shows] they’re ready to announce to the world that you’re a team. This is something we tend to reserve for those who we see a long-term commitment with.’’ This may be especially true when it comes to weddings where you are included name by on the invitation: it’s a great indictor that his friends also see you two as a united front!
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